Sunday
April 25 '04
Every person will need to find four people in
their lives. The First person is you. The
Second person is the one you love most. The
Third person is the one who love you most.And
the Fourth is the one you spend the rest of your
life with.
In life, firstly you will meet with the one you
love most, and learn how love feels. Because you
know how love feels, so you can find the person
who loves you most. When you have experienced
the feeling of loving others and being loved,
you will then know what it is you need most.
Then you will find the person who is most
suitable for you, to be able to spend the rest
of your life with.
Sadly, in real life, these three people are
usually not the same person. The one you love
most doesn't love you. The one, who loves you
most, is never the one you love most. And the
one you spend your life with, is never the one
you love most or the one who loves you most. He
is just the person who happens to be
at the right place at the right time. Which
person are you in other people's life?
No person will purposely have a change of heart.
At the point in time when
he loves you, he really loves you. But when he
doesn't love you anymore, he really doesn't love
you anymore. When he loves you, he can't pretend
that he doesn't. Same goes, when he loves you no
more, there's no way he can pretend he loves
you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to
leave
you. You must ask yourself if you still love
him,
If you also don't love him anymore, do not
keep him just to save your pride. If you still
love him, you should wish him happiness, and
hope
that he will be with the one he loves most, not
stop him from it. If you stop him from finding
true happiness with the one he loves, it shows
you already don't love him, And if you don't
love
him, what rights do you have to blame him for a
change of heart?
Love is not possessive, if you like the moon,
you
can't just take it down and put it in your
basin.
But the moonlight still shines upon you. In
other
words, when you love a person, you can use
another method of possessing the person. Let him
become a permanent memory in your life. If you
really love a person, you must love him for what
he is. Love him for his good points, and the
bad.
You can't wish for him to become like what you
like him to be just because you love him. If he
can't change to become what you like him to be,
you don't love him anymore. When you really love
a person, you cannot find a reason why you love
him, you only know that no matter when and
where,
good mood or bad mood, you will wish to have
this
person be with you.
Real love is when two people can go through the
toughest problems without asking for promises or
listing criteria. In a relationship, you have to
put in effort and give in at times, and not
always be on the receiving end. Being away from
each other is a type of test. If the
relationship isn't strong, then you can only
admit defeat. Real love will never become hate.